I enjoyed this book. It was wonderful to finally read a book about what men really like and enjoy about sex. It is not your over blown (no pun intended) Cosmo magazine BS. It's broken down into sections for different sexual styles and experiences. What I got from this is that passion for sex and communication with their partners was number one for most of them. And interestingly, pleasuring their partners was extremely important to most of the men interviewed, and they really want their female partners to get off. So ladies not every man you meet is in it for himself. It's also fun to read in bed. ;o)