This book is perfect for shedding light on all those little things that turn sex from "Wham. Bam. Thank you Ma'am" into "Ooooohhhh my gawd!"It takes the time to remind readers that sex is not just about intercourse, but about connecting with a partner. Touching their body in a way that impacts all their senses and yours as well. Turning something that may have felt like a chore before into something that turns you on while you do it.It covers simple things like holding hands to connect, but also gives lots of advanced techniques to stimulate and interact with your partner in a way that will have you both breathing heavy.I recently ended a 7 year relationship part of the reason stemming from sexual incompatibility. The issue for that relationship was not so much technique (or lack there of) but lack of open mindedness.I then happened to fall into a relationship with a longtime friend, and despite our friend group ragging on his sex life (or lack there of) he is amazing in bed. Mind blown. And here I thought I was above average on the performance scale. It was almost discouraging how much he could do to keep my on a edge of pleasure for over an hour, and how I seemed to fall exceedingly short. The very next day i bought this book and started reading. Even after just a few chapters, I was able to make his toes curl and he complimented me on my technique - all thanks to this book.I think this helped make me the perfect fit to his sexual desires which got me to an even better place sexually as well.