I have been a long time customer of the Pjur Original Bodyglide so when I came across this Pjur Backdoor lube I had to try it especially since my wife and I have anal a good bit. Without needing to get into too much detail, Pjur Backdoor lube has worked like a charm. The numbing sensation is just perfect for my wife as it gets rid of that tad discomfort and allows me to keep going pretty much as hard as I want. For anal sex there are really no cons about this product, it does exactly what you need it to do: lubricate and desensitize.There are, however, a couple concerns I do want to share. Coming from using Pjur Original Bodyglide exclusively for years, Pjur Backdoor feels quite different so others in the same boat just be aware of that. The feel of the Pjur Backdoor lube is definitely thicker and in my opinion it takes a bit more work to rub it in, but you get used to it after a couple of trials. Finally, as everyone else pointed out, cleaning can be a bit of a pain especially if you've never used silicone based lubricants before. My wife has a really bad latex allergy which is why I made the swap to pjur long ago, so I still remember first time we used our first Pjur product it was a bit of an experience coming from water based lubes. Final thing, the numbing effect of the lube can be of a hindrance sometimes especially for us guys. Naturally I feel like I last quite a while so the fact that this also numbs me only makes it tougher to have an orgasm sometimes, so again just a word of caution!A must for any anal lover gay or straight!