An interesting read, the book is very categorically divided into two almost unrelated sections: one on sex and the other on love. One would have expected such an expert dealing more specifically with the relationship between the two. As a general treatise, surely, I have read better works - even if considerably shorter - by Alan Soble. For instance, what Soble calls the "metaphysics of sexuality", and his very apt distinction between "metaphysical sexual pessimism" and "metaphysical sexual optimism", are practically absent altogether. The title of the book purports to be the (why not "a") philosophy of sex and love (together or separately?), but rather disappoints as a philosophical treatise. Notwithstanding, coming from such a brilliant expert on the subject, this book is not to be missed by anyone interested in the themes dealt with. It includes some very interesting discussions as well.