Take your time looking at the different sizes and know what you can and can’t handle before buying. The packaging was not discreet at all and came in a transparent plastic bag so you could see the product right through it. Luckily I caught that in other reviews so I purchased this with another product and made sure that they were delivered on the same day so luckily for me it came in regular Amazon packaging. It was covered in some sort of lubricant or oil, so I had to wash it before use (which obviously would be recommended regardless). It is pretty stiff and not very flexible, however the size definitely makes up for it especially if you use this with a clit stimulating vibeDefinitely not for beginners or in the middle it’s very largeItem had to be cleaned on arrival. Dildo had some sort of silcone grease on it. But after it was cleaned performed above expectations.Item is a bit larger than advertised. It shows 2.01" which is +/- a correct measurement across. Up and down it's MUCH closer to 2.5" - WOW! Wasn't expecting that! Pretty intense.With that said I ordered the next smaller size. This one is fun, but I still have to be careful on it!This dildo is great and all but the suction cup on it is kinda sucks. Its very picky on what it wants to stick on.This toy is perfect. It's very soft, firm & flexible. Not stiff as a board. The suction cup is super strong on smooth surfaces for solo use. It can be hand held to get the job done also. This is my 2nd. one only because i wanted a brand new one.. Enjoy.!It worked like it should for while i was away. It stuck hard and didnt budgeVery nice. Works fineI just found my new fav toy! Spent over 2 hours introducing each other! I love the jelly feel but its not a weird jelly just flexible and strong. I am tempted to try the XL but maybe in time :) I'll have some fun with this one in the meantime! Happy shoppingYes, just suction is good... but this product reeks of chemicals. Doesn't matter how much you wash it. It stinks, would not ever want to put it in your body. I don't know how this is an amazon favorite, its terrible!Great product and feels great!! At first I was a little intimidated by the size but after a few times with it I decided to order the 10” one, it’s just so much fun!!Edit: got the XL one in the mail, it’s a little big but It feels amazingArrived today in a bag you could easily tell what was in it so definitely not descreet shipping. The suction is not that great as it does not hold to well. Other then that it does look bigger as other comments sayI was not expecting it to be that big it has good size to it. The gf loves the length and girth had a few crazy orgzms and absolutely loves the feel. I would have given this a 5 rating but have given it 3 because of suction as well as the non descreet shipping. I recommend this product if your not to worried about the sucction and descreetnes.