He LOVES it. I bought this for a gift for him to try out instead of his beloved Fleshlights which he has used for so many years. He says it feels so good and when I saw it myself, I noticed that the details were incredible. The interior is made so well. I don't think anyone can top the Japanese & Chinese Sex Toy Market. He says he stacks it between pillows and can really go to town mimicking missionary or doggy. It doesn't heat up as quickly as the Fleshlight but he likes it better overall. He also said it keeps the "mess" inside instead of it spilling out like the Fleshlight. I am excited for him to eventually try out different models of the MEIKI toys. Also I hear the Magic Eye toys (another Chinese brand) offer some really great ones too. This is kind of big for a Lady to hold as is the Fleshlight. I needed two hands when I picked it up. So it may be hard to use for mutual pleasure of your partner., but maybe it's just me who had a hard time holding it. But it's way fun to watch ;) Do not hesitate to buy this toy. For someone that LOVES his Fleshlights and uses them almost daily., it says a lot that he speaks so highly of the MEIKI ZXY model. Slam hard and fast and the sounds it makes are just like the slapping sounds during real sex ;) Happy pumping!