First off, the material is really high quality and it's firm but not hard like a rock. A good realist feel to it. Second thing, damn this thing is huge!! It was way bigger than expected. Reading the dimensions doesn't so it justice. It's like going from a rural town to NYC; you can't really grasp how big it is until you see it in person. The length isn't a deal breaker but that width is something else. If Zeus was real, this would be his dick.We can't really use it for its intended purpose but we keep it around for fun and junk. It's become a running joke that Brent will end up in you in the middle of the night if you are a bad boy. It's sexy in a scared/curious kind of way lol